how to handle kids

By Minka • 5 months ago • 1 likes • 1 replies • 14 views

Hello Everyone...I am mother of 2 kids. boys of 10 and 12 yrs. they are too naughty and difficult to handle. they don't listen to me much. unko padana to next to impossible. ek agar baith jata hai to dusra use baton mei lagake le jata hai. sara din masti khelna. dono ki team bani hai jisme koi bich mei nahi aa sakta. kabhi kabhi lagta hai pata nahi life mei aage kaise challenges face karenge. har waqt masti har waqt mazak. Yahan par sab experienced ladies hain. aap logo ne kaise handle kiya apne bacho ko. Share some tips and tricks, ho sakta hai kuch mere bhi kaam aa jaye. Thanks.

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Gauri
5 months ago • edited

“Hi dear, aapki baat padhkar laga jaise aap meri hi story bata rahi ho. Mere bachche bhi almost aise hi the—full masti mode, ek dusre ke partner in crime 😂

Sabse pehle toh yeh samajh lo ki yeh age hi aisi hoti hai, energy bahut hoti hai aur focus kam. Isme tension lene se zyada smart handling kaam aati hai.

Maine kya kiya tha :
Maine unke liye ek fixed routine banaya, jisme thoda study time aur thoda play time dono balance ho. Jab unhe pata hota hai ki “ab khelna bhi milega”, toh wo padhne ke liye thoda ready ho jate hain.

Dusra, maine unhe alag-alag bithana start kiya . warna wo ek dusre ko distract karte hi rahenge. Kabhi kabhi healthy competition bhi create kiya—jaise “jo pehle kaam finish karega usko small reward milega”.

Aur honestly, thodi masti unke saath karna bhi zaroori hai… jab aap unke friend banoge, toh wo aapki baat zyada sunenge.

Aap bilkul tension mat lo, yeh phase bhi nikal jayega. Aap already itna try kar rahi ho, that itself shows you are a great mom.

Bas thoda patience + thoda smart tricks… aur dheere dheere sab control mein aa jata hai 👍”