Bachchon Ko Marks Nahi, Zindagi Ke Liye Taiyaar Karein

By Minka • 2 weeks, 2 days ago • 1 likes • 1 replies • 13 views

Hello Friends. aaj mai bacho ko lekar thoda pareshan thi kyunki unke exams aane wale hain aur woh utna time nahi de rahe padai ko. I am presenting my thoughts as it is.

Kya hum apne bachchon ko padhne ke liye kahen… ya bas unhe khush rehne dein?

Aaj ke bachchon ke paas uljhe rehne ke liye itni saari cheezein hain…

Internet hai, TV hai, YouTube hai, games hain, social media hai…
aur in sabke beech thoda sa waqt khelne ke liye bhi chahiye.

Phir hai padhai…
aur padhai ke saath woh endless competition.

Har taraf se ek hi baat sunai deti hai—
**“Aage badhna hai.”
“Achhe marks laane hain.”
“Peeche nahi rehna.”**

Lekin kabhi-kabhi bachchon par padhai ka pressure daalne se bhi darr lagta hai.

Aaj jab itni chhoti-chhoti baaton se bachchon ke stress aur mental health ko lekar khabrein sunne ko milti hain, toh dil kehta hai—
**kahin hum apne bachche se bahut zyada toh expect nahi kar rahe?**

Aur phir doosra darr saamne khada hota hai—
**agar humne use bilkul nahi roka, nahi samjhaya, padhai ke liye push nahi kiya… toh kahin woh sabse peeche na reh jaaye?**

Sach kahun toh kabhi-kabhi samajh hi nahi aata ki parenting ka sahi balance kya hai.

Na hum unka bachpan sirf marks aur competition mein khona chahte hain…
na hi hum chahte hain ki kal woh humse kahe—
**“Aapne mujhe time par samjhaya kyun nahi?”**

Ek interview mein Sushant Singh Rajput ne ek bahut interesting baat kahi thi, jiska thought mujhe aaj bhi sochne par majboor karta hai.

Unka kehna tha ki **aaj hum bachchon ko jis cheez ke liye prepare kar rahe hain, ho sakta hai future mein woh cheezein unke kaam hi na aayein. Aur future mein kya kaam aayega, ye hum aaj jaante bhi nahi.**

Toh phir hum unhe *exactly kya* padhayein?

Shayad iska jawab sirf syllabus aur marks mein nahi hai.

**Humein bachchon ko future ki har cheez ka jawab dene ke liye nahi,
future ke har challenge ka saamna karne ke liye ready karna hai.**

Unhe emotionally strong banana hai.

Unhe ye sikhana hai ki failure aaye toh woh toot na jaayein.
Kisi cheez mein success na mile toh woh khud ko unsuccessful na samjhein.
Mushkil waqt aaye toh woh usse bhaagein nahi, uska saamna karein.

Unhe problem-solving sikhani hai.
Unhe change ko accept karna sikhana hai.
Unhe apne decisions par sochna sikhana hai.
Aur sabse zaroori—
**unhe apne aap par bharosa karna sikhana hai.**

Kyuki hum ye predict nahi kar sakte ki unka future kaisa hoga.

Lekin hum unhe itna zaroor sikha sakte hain ki
**future chahe jaisa bhi ho, woh uske saamne khade reh sakein.**

Shayad parenting ka matlab ye nahi ki hum unke liye har raasta pehle se bana dein.

Shayad parenting ka matlab hai—
**unhe itna strong bana dein ki jab koi raasta na mile, toh woh khud ek raasta bana sakein. ❤️**

Aapko kya lagta hai?

**Kya aaj humein bachchon ko future ki specific race ke liye prepare karna chahiye, ya phir unhe life ke har challenge ka saamna karne layak banana chahiye?**

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Replies (1)

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Sonam
1 week, 4 days ago • edited

Khud bade hona aur apne bachchon ko bada karna, dono bahut different experiences hain. Jab hum khud bachche hote hain, to har chhoti-badi baat ke liye apne parents ko dosh dete hain—“unhone aisa kyun kiya, waise kyun nahi kiya.” Lekin jab hamare apne bachche bade hote hain aur kisi baat par hume galat thehrate hain, tab jaakar shayad hume apne parents ki bhi baat samajh aane lagti hai aur apne bachchon ki bhi.

Aapne bahut achhi baat kahi ki bachchon ko emotionally strong banana kitna zaroori hai. Aaj har jagah aage badhne ki race itni badh gayi hai ki bachpan shayad pehle jaisa reh hi nahi gaya. Har waqt padhai, competition, achievements aur expectations ke beech hum kabhi-kabhi ye bhool jaate hain ki bachchon ko sirf successful nahi, balki ek strong aur balanced insaan bhi banana hai.

Ab hume ye samajhne ki zarurat hai ki bachchon ko har tarah se badhne dein—sirf padhai mein nahi, balki emotions mein, relationships mein, decisions lene mein aur sabse badhkar ek insaan ke roop mein bhi.

Shayad parenting ka asli matlab ye hi hai—unhe apne hisaab se perfect banana nahi, balki unhe itni freedom aur strength dena ki woh khud ko samajh sakein aur apni zindagi ko apne tareeke se jee sakein.