Hello Friends,
Aaj main zindagi ke ek aise mod par khadi hoon, jahan mujhe samajh nahi aa raha ki main kya karun aur kaunsa decision loon.
Meri shaadi ko abhi sirf 1 month hua hai, lekin is ek mahine mein maine bahut kuch feel kiya hai. Main apne in-laws ke saath adjust karne ki poori koshish kar rahi thi, lekin baat-baat par taane sunna aur khud ko akela mehsoos karna mere liye bahut difficult ho raha tha.
Sabse zyada dukh tab hota hai jab jis insaan ke saath humne poori zindagi bitane ka sapna dekha ho, wahi humein samajhne aur support karne ke bajaye doosron ka saath de raha tha . Mere husband ka attitude aur behaviour mujhe bahut hurt karta tha. Kai baar aisa lagta hai ki shayad woh meri feelings ko samajh hi nahi rahe.
Jab maine apni maa ko bataya ki main wahan mentally bahut disturbed feel kar rahi hoon aur mujhse ab wahan rehna mushkil ho raha hai, to meri maa ne mujhe ghar bula liya. Ab main apne parents ke saath hoon aur dono families ke beech baat ho rahi hai.
Lekin mere mind mein ek hi question baar-baar aa raha hai—**kya sirf time ke bharose kisi relationship ko chalaya ja sakta hai? Kya time ke saath sab kuch automatically theek ho jata hai, ya phir dono logon ko milkar relationship ko better banane ki koshish karni padti hai?**
Ghar wale kehte hain ki mujhe is relationship ko thoda aur time dena chahiye. Shayad woh sahi keh rahe hain… lekin mera bhi maanna hai ki koi bhi relationship tabhi beautiful ban sakta hai jab usmein **love, respect, understanding aur support dono taraf se ho.**
Main koi bhi decision jaldi ya gusse mein nahi lena chahti. Main bas itna chahti hoon ki mujhe apni life ke liye sahi decision lene ka time aur clarity mile.
Shayad zindagi kabhi-kabhi humein difficult situations mein isliye laakar khada karti hai, taaki hum apni value, apni happiness aur apni peace ko samajh saken.
**Har relationship ek chance deserve karta hai, lekin kisi bhi relationship mein apni khushi, self-respect aur mental peace ko khona bhi theek nahi hai.**
Mujhe umeed hai ki mujhe jaldi hi apne life ka sahi raasta mil jayega. Kyunki situations chahe kitni bhi difficult kyun na ho, **ek better tomorrow ki hope hamesha hoti hai.** ❤️
Aap sab mujhe honestly batayein… aisi situation mein kya relationship ko ek aur chance dena chahiye, ya phir apni peace aur happiness ko priority deni chahiye?